Dating several women at the same time
The problem is that I really like both of them and they both seem to be really amazing guys.They follow up, they text, we talk, make plans…it’s all good. On the other hand, I don’t know how to manage this.My best friend has been single for the past six months, after being in a relationship for five years.I’ve watched her go through all of the phases I went through when I was freshly out of a long-term relationship: thinking about dating; dating; embarking on a dating freeze; swearing off dating forever, with and without a solemn oath; and trying on every state in between.I advised her not to put all of her dating eggs in one basket, if you will.I know how borderline insane that sounds, but I did that too when I was single: About six months after a long relationship ended, I dated two men, a professor and a crazy person, basically on two opposing sides of the spectrum, for about a month simultaneously. I knew I wasn’t serious about both, didn’t get hung up on either, and walked away bruise-free.Things have been going well, and I give a lot of credit to what I have learned from your book, emails and this site.However, this is not something I have ever done before and I am having a hard time with the idea of juggling.
I am trying not to let things move too fast physically or emotionally, but they both seem very interested and I just don’t know what to do.
Since there was no way to know who would stick around, I dated as many guys as I was interested in at the same time.
That's why I'm an advocate for "volume dating."I dated 30 men in 15 months in order to eventually meet my husband.
As their search for love heats up, suddenly there are a multiple men who are interested in them and they don't know how to handle it.
The other scenario is that these women fall in love too quickly with one guy and end up heartbroken time after time. Well here's some dating advice for women in particular...